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I always wanted to have a threesomebut it wasn't until my my mid-twenties, when I went through a brutal break-upthat I decided it was time to pursue my biggest sexual fantasy. I was going to have a threesome. There are a lot Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me ways to go about this — I know, because I Googled them, and I listened to all Dan Savage's podcasts on Lookign subject.

Actually, there's only one real secret to successfully achieving a safe and rewarding, pleasurable three-way: So in the spirit of the three-wayhere are 3 ways that I went about it to try to make it happen. Some worked better for me than others. I started my foray by setting up an OKCupid profile the indicated that I was interested Lonely women seeking men in Rushmore "being a unicorn.

Given the amount of creepy single dudes who hit me up, though, I had to change my profile to read, "I am seriously ONLY looking to be a third. If you are a single man, I don't want to see your penis; I promise that no matter how great you think you or your penis may be, you are not the exception to this rule.

Just as I was getting tired of spending my afternoons deleting uncomfortable messages from creepy men in trucker hats, I received a message from a guy I will call Benjamin I won't be using any real names in this piece.

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Benjamin and his girlfriend, Marissa, had been waiting for me, he wrote. He was on OKCupid to try to find a third, and I was the third they had been looking for. He sent me his phone number, and I guyy him when I got bored playing Frisbee golf with my friends on a Saturday afternoon.

The hookup app is swarming with horny couples looking to fuck a woman together. if a couple's profile should be made by the male or female (although . you try anal with another woman, just thinking about it turns me on. “It's not like your relationship is wrong if you want to have sex with you focus on compatibility, not on whether someone is reready for a bit of adventure. me that I liked,” says Zoe, who requested her last name not be used. A threesome that involves sharing your woman may fill some men with dread. Letting another Which leads me on to my next point - finding the right candidate .

We agreed to meet at a coffee shop the next day to get to know each other a little before we moved forward. Benjamin taught yoga and Marissa ran a dance studio, and they looked like people who taught yoga and ran a dance studio.

Marisa even wore one of those midriff-bearing t-shirts, and it was actually really working for her. I, on the other hand, write blog posts about doughnuts and thought the term "push-ups" referred to a type of ice cream bar until embarrassingly late in my life.

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When I met them, I was intimidated. But they were smiley and they both flirtatiously touched my arm.

We asked each other about our sexual health and our sexual preferences. In hindsight, this might Horny moms Warwick have been an appropriate conversation to have in a coffee shop, but it highlights a crucial element for a threesome: The most important thing is communicating exactly what you want and being very clear about what's off limits.

That doesn't have to happen in a coffee shop, but it should happen before you're all naked together. The next week, I went to Benjamin's house in the afternoon.

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He and Marisa and I played a round of Settlers of Catan these very hot people were somehow equally nerdy about board gamesand then Older women seeking dick said, "Should we go to the bedroom?

Once we were in the bedroom, though, my heart started to beat like crazy, and I felt claustrophobic and tense. It struck me that I just wasn't ready to have sex with these people; I didn't know them well enough.

And so, as they started to 3sme, I told them I was sorry, but Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me just wasn't going to work for me because I wasn't ready. I apologized profusely, but they were very understanding. They told me to let them know if I ever changed my mind.

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I kissed them both goodbye and went down the street to buy a doughnut. This method proved to be more successful, because I knew the people I was getting involved with. My friend Diane and I have known each havd for several years in bave work capacity, and we like each other.

When we were both single ish — she had a boyfriend she was non-monogamous with forr, Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me gone on a few dates together. We had both really only been in heterosexual relationships, so we were clumsy and giggly on our "dates. A few years into our friendship, Diane and I were grabbing a drink together when she asked me if I would be interested in filming her boyfriend Tony and her having sex.

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No one had a video camera, so we used Diane's Macbook to film. They took off their clothes and enjoyed themselves, and then Tony invited me to join them. Soon we'd forgotten Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me the camera and we were kissingtangled up in each other, asking for consent "Can I touch you here?

When I left, after we had all finished and had glasses of water and spent some time lying in bed laughing, I felt thrilled, accomplished. It had been everything I'd wanted it to be. A few months after my first threesome, I fell in love with a Swingers Chattanooga Tennessee county named Luke, and my single life came to a close. We moved to Chicago together; things got quickly serious. We got cats.

Early on in our relationship, I told Luke that I fantasized about having threesomes, and that I'd be interested in trying to have one with him. He perhaps unsurprisingly thought that was great.

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We s igned up for an app called 3nder, which is basically Tinder for people who are looking for a third. After months of swiping and messaging, though, we hadn't made much progress in finding our unicorn. We put the idea on the back-burner. Then, in the early months of spring, a friend, Zoe, came to visit us from out of town. I'd always been attracted to Zoe, and she knew it — I Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me been shy about telling her.

Chicago gave up some gorgeous weather for her visit, and on Saturday we all walked to the lakeside beach to have a picnic. Sitting on the cotton sheet we'd brought in lieu of a blanket and listening to the songbirds that Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me through that area in early spring, I found myself touching Zoe's leg a little more than I would if she was just a friend.

I noticed Luke noticing. And then — although I honestly can't remember how — the topic of massage candles came up. Zoe said that wow, those candles sounded amazing. And before I could stop myself, I told her that we could give her a massage when we got back Women looking for discreet sex Rochester grand prix the apartment, if she wanted.

This three-way was my favorite.

Zoe and I spent a lot of time kissing and fr, and Luke rubbed our backs but stayed mostly clothed. Zoe isn't a ttracted to men, really, but I think she liked having Luke around. Everything felt empowering. F emale pleasure was at the center of the encounter, and that was so different than what I'd ever seen in porn or experienced in my own heterosexual encounters — maybe it was because it was about fulfilling my desire, and it was with people I trusted.

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And afterward, it was super friendly: We all made dinner together and watched Broad City. My 3som piece of advice?

You have to advocate for your own pleasure, and find the people you're most comfortable with when you're having a threesome. Trust me: There are people out there Looking for a guy to have a 3some w me ares into exactly the kind of thing you are into, and they're just waiting for you to find them. Follow Redbook on Facebook. Type keyword s to search. Getty Images. Use the Internet. Sophia Lucido Johnson. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below.

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