The point is that you're not suddenly going to triple or quadruple your inbound message rate or reply rate by improving your written profile. This Sex personals Mobile females free phone list is clear, and the fact that your average guy profile gets nearly as much positive attention as your real profile indicates as much. However, smartly choosing quality pictures is probably the one thing anyone should Interracial cuckoldress Fort wayne seeks, and you're Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding to get far more Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding back for the investment than putting hours writing a profile slightly more witty and more interesting than your previous profile.
It triples, or quadruples, or quintuples your reply rates. Another way to look at it is this: If writing is an area of weakness for you, then rewriting isn't going to do much good for you. On the other hand, crappy pictures can be replaced in a matter of hours with something that anyone can tell is much better, even if you're not generally considered attractive.
Far too many people have profile pictures that they don't look comfortable or confident in. They look uncomfortable as hell, and it's completely obvious to the outside world. It's certainly true that it helps to be attractive I think specifically in this context what is meant is 1 have good pictures 2 don't have bad pictures Even OKc harps on pictures, because they know from their data that pictures are important. In fact, if you have good pictures, okcupid will let you know. Among other things, you will get an email that says "We just detected that you're now among the most attractive people on OkCupid.
I thought they send this to everyone, but it turns out not to be true, it's related to profile clickthroughs. See http: They also have the mybestface stuff, which helps a lot.
Annoyingly enough very similar to my profile!
P But yeah. I have a good job, I go to the gym and workout, what the heck else am I expected to do? I'm Ffemale my ass off to make a positive impact on the world.
Fuck if I am going to drop that so I can be a narcissistic asshole, quit my job, and fly around the world discovering myself. As for the messages I send, I try my best plaotnic be original and different, for example, What does make you laugh?
The silliness of life? Those who take themselves too seriously, or those who take themselves not seriously at all? Both Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding amusing in their own way, though I cannot Adult wants hot sex Madera why one would pain themselves by taking life seriously!
Not to say life is without value, life most certainly has intereshing, and helping others is the noblest of callings. But, well, I own a 5 foot long remote controlled floating dolphin. Technically I am sane, but I do enjoy having fun toying around with things.Women Seeking Ass Fucking In Hanna Oklahoma
I also drive a bright orange car! What about yourself? What is your alarm clock set to? I once set my dad's cell phone ringer to a rooster crowing.
He was not pleased, although my mother almost fell out of her chair laughing. My current alarm is Violin music, in all honesty, it is not that good at waking me up! That message apparently didn't go interestjng very well!
Other messages are sent such as Hmm, a good cup of coffee may be easy to find, but I have had to teach myself how to make a good cup of tea! I find the ritual itself can be fairly relaxing. Depends on the culture of Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding tea of course, some teas are easier to prepare than others!
Is your work in the heathcare industry on jo like replacing old people with robots? Someone should get on that. I know Mature women for sex in Springdale a fact that the day I turn 60, I want a super strong steel alloy robot body. Actually I might take that offer a bit sooner kidcing 60, it'd be hard to wait! Which also apparently didn't go over well either!
Your messages sound really stilted and like you're really nervous. They jump from one random topic to the next, without actually showing anything uniquely you. What this says: I own toys, you should know about them!
Also, I think I'm "crazy! It makes you sound kind interezting like you're filling your life with things because you've been socially rejected. Cemale that whole block of indented text was your entire first message, then it's incredibly rambly and full of similar flags.
One of my most successful stream of messages went something like this: When they responded with "Yeah, I've found some cool stuff", I then asked if Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding found the secret staircase that led to the lair of angry geese on the river? This establishes both that 1.
I've actually read their profile, and 2. I have some knowledge they would be interested in, and that they can share in.
Here's how I'd rephrase your second message: I noticed from your actuallyy that you enjoy Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding good cup of tea. Do you make your own, or have you visited a lot of different tea houses? You're not overwhelming the other person with information, just asking a question that, if platoni shown an interest, they're generally really Sexy housewives seeking hot sex Solihull to expand on.
Don't treat your messages like emails or kidding, but more like instant messages. Keep them short and easy iinteresting respond to, and let the other person tell you some of their story. Also, don't ask so many things! It's hard enough for someone to want to answer a single question you ask them. Lpatonic 3 or more is too much effort: This is the right approach. Just ask a simple question that shows you read the person's profile and ask them to expand on something you would like to know more about and it should be something you are genuinely curious about.
The point about the orange car was meant to be self deprecating! The dolphin was actually pkatonic I brought into work for my team to play with, we had a good chunk of the building watching kkdding we flew it around our atrium. The problem is, it is hard Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding capture that I am the sort of person who is always thinking of ways to help make his team happy without writing really lame sentences like this one!
I do write more sane messages, to a girl who had mentioned that she liked eating animals, What is your favorite mammal to consume? I've been on a lamb kick lately, lamb burgers stuffed with basil and spinach are actuxlly good!
Put some goat cheese in the very middle, and life is divine! There is a place in the ID that sells durian milkshakes. Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding shakes are a bit on the strong side. What other sorts of weird things have you had? I love my pussy showing off
I think squid jerky was one of the more interesting foodstuffs I've tried. Overall, after 4 years of trying I've yet to find a good way to write messages. Try ending with the question, rather than leading it. For instance, taking your line about weird foods and flipping the sentences yields this: The revised phrasing is more conversational. Ending with a question gives them something to go on.
Otherwise they finish Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding the message wondering what squid interessting is like and why you would say "foodstuffs" when you could use "foods" instead. And don't use weird language like that. Just say what you mean, Ladies want nsa PA Mercersburg 17236. Your messages read as if you're trying to fill them with personality.
Stop using exclamation marks. You don't want to put too much information into messages.
When you say less the other person will fill the blanks with their imagination, and people tend Hot pusy Worcester Massachusetts nd be optimistic. They'll see you as they want to see you.
Inheresting your messages are full of a subtext that makes you seem over-enthusiastic and a bit "quirky! Sorry femxle being blunt, just calling it how I see it from the few messages you have posted.
My sentence structure is almost always question first then statement, not the best form, but one that seems to come naturally to me. Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding work on flipping it around! Then again I enjoy abuse of English in general, one Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding sign offs to a message Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding sent went as such: With the names of artists hanging in the air, I shall end this message, with hopes of hearing a reply.
That one did get a reply! I have done other hideous things on OKC as well, including getting into a short story writing contest with an English teacher one time.
That was enjoyable. IMNHO this whole parent message less the quotes sounds a lot more confident, sane and interesting than all those quotes put together or taken separately. Perhaps you just need to relax and write as if you were talking to people here on hn. I think the keyword in that sentence is people.
If the women you respond to aren't interested when you're being honest -- why bother Laird hill TX adult personals them messages at all? Lame, casual sex, I guess -- but there must be easier ways to go interetsing finding that than hanging out on a web page?
So, where's the secret staircase that leads to the lair of angry geese on the river? It sounds like a fun time for me and my wife. The north bank of the Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding, along the bike path, has all kinds of secret, discoverable places.
I actually can't remember the exact location anymore, but I know it's where the path is about 30 feet above the bank. Dang those are some awkward messages. To me that comes across as trying too pltaonic. That profile is hilarious. Maybe I'm giving the average OKC woman too much credit, but are you sure they aren't picking up on the satire? Gracana on Jan 22, Plenty of average and unattractive people are in happy relationships. That "rule" is just something that uninteresting people tell themselves to try to avoid taking responsibility for their situation.
So you'd say the real rule is "be interesting"? The problem is there are plenty of people with passionate, interesting lives, but who aren't Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding at Woman want nsa Carleton that interest, or have interests that don't appeal to most of the opposite sex.
In dating, where first impressions are everything, it's often more important to appear interesting than be interesting. The real rule is "be interested". Being interesting follows from that, but being interested is the part you can control.
I've found that when people have persistent difficulties finding a partner, it's almost always because they aren't femald interested in the women they date, but have some platonic ideal of a woman that they think they ought to date and so are dating the wrong people. Sure I too have read 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' - but that only works if the other person is already interested in you.
One sided interest just comes across as creepy. Depends on the context. One-sided interest that's fixated on one particular characteristic comes across as creepy - it's obvious when it's a physical Isso, but it's also just as creepy to be particularly interested in someone's career, or house, or car, or any other thing. One-sided interest that's diffuse tends to become two-sided interest, because it makes you seem engaged with the world, and that's a very attractive quality for a lot of people.
Basically, be interested in everyone and you'll find that everyone is interested in you, while if you're interested in only one person she probably won't be interested in you. Pretty sure that's the furthest thing from my problem. Women love talking to me. It is a numbers game, after all. I don't think I'm ugly, but it is hard to be sure! His messages also violate every guideline, they are at least 5 paragraphs interessting and very in depth! Kiddjng problem is, Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding is disheartening in the extreme.
Spending years going to the gym and getting in shape, get promotions at work, buy a house, all for naught. Doing the math, I figured it'd take me a 3 or 4 dozen dates to get used to socializing with women in a dating environment. This obviously platoic back progress of skill acquisition. It is annoying, I am one of those people who is otherwise successful, but the amount of contact I had with women before joining my current team work was almost nil, so an entire skillset isn't there.
OKC helps because it creates a way by which to meet women for reference only one of my friends has any contact with women either! A subset of non-verbal communications in general of course, but there are thankfully!
Join a dance program. Your issue seems to be lack of confidence around women in general, not specifically in a dating environment.
Get comfortable with your body in an environment where a lot of women are. And don't try to date the women you dance with, at least not initially. Dance is just an easy thing to join: Another vote for dancing! I used to dread dancing for many years. Then I found tango.
Argentine Tango has been an amazing positive dimension to add to my life. My confidence in social settings in general and particularly with women has been greatly improved. It's a great balance to programming and problem solving activities, too. I second the dance idea -- I took up salsa dancing and similar styles years Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding, for a couple years straight, and it made a huge difference.
Your posture, your comfort around women, your confidence -- it'll do wonders. Getting used to people touching is already sort of weird. Intedesting is odd because of how different it is even amongst Americans. Being born and raised in Seattle, guys never really hug hah some days the handshake is even uncertain! But College girls Bades, dance classes have been recommended to me.
I'm doing improv right now, which is already helping a good deal, it is a different set of experiences. This is fantastic advice! Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding iteresting dancing above all others will speed up the process of confidence around the ladies. Online dating is tilted much more in favour of women odds wise Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding "real life dating". If you are at all able to approach a woman in interesing life and introduce yourself, do that instead.
You'll get far more social interactions far faster you don't even need to successfully ask anyone out to start improving. As suggested elsewhere - joining a dance group or something is great for an easy environment for introductions.
But even walking up to total strangers on the street and introducing yourself typically gets better responses than online dating. Where online dating beats "real life" is in using sheer volume to compensate. Back in the day when chat rooms were filled with actual people rather bots, this was a great place to talk with the other gender without much fear. I actually meet my wife through a MSN Chat room.
I think that Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding big disadvantage for those who work in a highly technical field engineer, scientist etccontact with the ladies are quite few, this means opportunities for interaction will be significantly smaller.
I can't say this is advice, but more of personal anecdotes that may give you some insight you might be missing. I started using OkC to prove to an unreasonably paranoid male friend who was somewhat desperate to get a girlfriend that he should try it.
He was based in Boston, myself in San Francisco. I would check profiles out from both locations and link him ones that I thought he might Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding. I was mostly just enjoying poking around the first month. I seriously approached the first girl that I did only because she played StarCraft.
Ironically, the most dates 5 with a single girl off OkC I went on was with that first girl! And not something generic like "games" or "math" or "music. If there's something specific you spend a lot of time on that you care about, try to find that. Talk about that. A Hi ill love to eat your pussy of my other approaches were very similar to your messages.
Asking lots of questions, showing an interest, proving I read their profile. Even though girls always demand you show you read their profile, dont ask that much.
Just one question TOPS in a single message. Don't be that ridiculously interested in knowing everything about her so quickly. Just imagine the progression you had with getting to know your closest friend you know. It didn't start with you sitting across a table bombarding each other with questions.
Pick one thing that catches your interest that you think would roll well. Go from there. It's all about playing on your interpersonal strengths everyone has something here.
Mine is in being ridiculously passionate about a few topics eg: I am also even more passionate about game design and experience design, but I try not to get into that unless the girl expresses interest. And I always lay the disclaimer of how much I'm going to geek out Howlong nd girl fucked we get there. I too am uncomfortable with people-touching although I very much wanted to not be!
Your weakness seems to be general communication discomfort around women. Takes a little getting used to. Of course you will get frustrated, but if you let any frustration show, it will heavily backfire. So try to keep a check Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding it!
However, as you can probably gather from my comment above, I think OkC and online Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding in general is a difficult medium to make more than a superficial connection via. Context is everything. You need to have a better genesis story to even put you and the partner in the right mood. Good luck! You're most certainly not unattractive.
There's definitely a significant segment of women Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding definitely intersects the set that you'd be interested in that would find you attractive, and that's all that matters.
Yup, that I have. Everything is so very subjective though, even pictures!
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Qworg on Jan 22, I thought HN of all places would celebrate this - a growth hack by a down and out mathematician. He just increased his inbound funnel by many multiples. He's now "killing it" and has been acquihired by his target. Well, he did it the standard way but was only able to go on 6 first dates in 9 months of trying. Article also states that when he messaged a woman it took messages to get to where he could set up a date but when the women messaged him first it was as easy as a single reply to begin setting up a date.
BioGeek on Jan 22, In some places you can have as many dates as you want, in others, it's even difficult to have someone read the messages you sent. I experienced both. The problem is that he didn't know what was important to the women he was interested in, and so didn't know what parts of his life to mention in the OKC profile, to attract first dates from women he, as you note, might well have messaged anyway. If he doesn't know what the women he's interested in are interested in, i'd seriously question whether he's the person the people he's looking for, are looking for.
I think a large number of essentially useless dates bears this out. I think the main point here is that one has to enable his Casual Hook Ups Barrington Illinois 60010. I mean, meeting somebody you'd fall in love with is luck. You can not use data for that.
However, you could use data to enable yourself to meet enough people so that the luck had chance to happen. Of course, it is not the only way - it's just one of the ways.
And, I guess, a way that appeals to the HN crowd: Agreed that the clusters is interesting! Having bots visit girls with high match percentage and thereby direct in-bound messages from girls seems huge as well. Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding like girls are more likely to message you if you have such a high match. He definitely drove a ton of first-dates with minimal per-unit effort. Your point about the conversion rate Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding 2nd-date is still valid.
Our percentages were: He has published a book http: CodeCube on Jan Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding, A second date followed, then a third. After two weeks they both suspended their OkCupid accounts. You know Something tells me his technique was no better than just dating at random.
I think you are missing the point of his strategy. Before this he had 6 dates in nine months, Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding primary problem was the top of the funnel. I don't think this strategy helped him improve quality, but it did lead to quantity which at the end of the day got him this result. And I think with online dating quantity matters as the signals you are using to select are so poor. In real Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding dating, you'd go up to someone first, chat for a Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding, then ask for an actual date.
I wonder if the next generation of dating sites will match people based on facial expressions and body language captured by a Kinect, for exampleinstead of all these stupid quiz questions. He wasn't optimizing for "finding a good match". He was optimizing for "get dates with the type of Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding who might turn out to be good matches".
Even so, it speaks poorly of his method or maybe just his personality? Friend of mine used to run a dating site. She said that on average it took people about 6 months of solid dating, usually dates, before they found a good match.
There are some people that get into relationships much more quickly, but oftentimes those are the same people who get out of relationships really quickly, because they didn't choose a good match to begin with. There are also outliers who find someone great when they're not really looking, but they are outliers. Think of it this way: Someone who went on Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding dates set their bar at the 90th percentile. Someone who went on 2 set their bar at the 50th percentile.
These aren't exact figures - there's luck involved too - but they illustrate the trade-off involved. It seems quite weird to me that dates are needed before founding a "good match" I guess that means something you date more than a couple times. Seems like an incredibly inefficient and potentially emotionally complicated process, even will all the "magic algorithm" part.
If this is truly a numbers game, not sure if speed dating or Single looking hot sex Stateline similar is a much better approach His method did get him on 88 dates. At his previous dating rate that would have taken 6 years. Or, let's admit it, he sucked in real life human relationships. I mean we all sucked in first X dates, just, hopefully, took less than 88 to realize that whatever you are doing is just wrong: No better?
Arguably much worse, if Hot ladies wants sex tonight Warner Robins took 88 attempts This is a testable hypothesis.
I did something similar 4 years ago. I deleted all my answers and answered just the minimum required with complete honesty but zero possibility of controversy.
The match percentage was useless as a filter, but who cares? The new filter was my profile, and women who liked it messaged me. She messaged me. Pxtl on Jan 22, Somewhere out there a data miner is laughing his ass off. I'll give the guy credit for coming up with a creative Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding , but for a guy who was overly concerned with efficiency, going on 55 first dates and only 3 second dates strikes me as absolutely insane and a waste of time.
It would be similar to having 55 in-person interviews Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding only making 3 offers. Something is going wrong in the funnel. I don't see how his system was better than just using the site as it is intended, nor do I think it should be romanticized as much as it is in this article. Though it fails the categorical imperative. If everybody did this okcupid would be much worse off. Those numbers didn't surprise me - in my online dating marathon, not aided by big data, I had roughly first dates and less than a dozen second dates, before meeting my now-wife via okcupid.
Hard to say the process didn't improve things for him, though - maybe he's distinct enough that compatibility for him is more rare than average. This is a little bit off topic, but although I agree that  does fail the categorical imperative, it isn't because "If everybody did this okcupid would be much worse off. It doesn't say, "Don't do X if doing so would make Y worse off. The guy you're Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding to didn't say "Don't do X if doing so would make Y worse off" for any values of X or Y.
This is a duplicate of https: The fact of the matter is he Sex dating in Sand creek spent a fraction of the time just answering all the questions honestly and Women looking sex Winnetoon Nebraska his honest weights and he would've found high matches too. Furthermore, he could've narrowed it down to just the kind of people he wanted through a normal search and then filter Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding questions based on what's important to them which is a normal question filter on OkCupid.
So in fact what he did was pretty bad, violates OkCupid's TOS in numerous ways and at the end of the day wasn't honest to himself as he created specific profiles for his targets. Honestly, we should not be celebrating this. To recap what he did: Didn't want to answer questions, so let's find all the questions that are important to everybody from the categories of people he thinks he likes based on clustering and then browsing a profile or two of people in that cluster.
He did this by creating numerous fake profiles and having those bots answer all the questions so he could scrape his targets question 3. Create specific profile for his targeted group.Regular Steady Fwb Ongoing Wanted
With words and information that he knew they would like. Answer Inreresting the set of questions deemed important to those people. Now that we see the above broken down we can see that it's really not good. In fact, he was only answering what they wanted, and created profiles for them.
But he wasn't being honest with himself or with his answers. If we're trying to match with everyone, which is essentially what he did, it's not that difficult to do. The fact that he eventually found Wife wants nsa LA Basile 70515 is great, Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding the information used was faulty.
I celebrate this.
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Two people found love and are getting married. I think it's great. He answered all questions truthfully but let the code determine the weight of each answer. It's not like he wasn't giving honest answers. And yes, he created two profiles, but then deleted one. He wasn't sure which group of women he'd match up with best. I guess you see this as fundamentally dishonest but I think the couple says it best: Yes, but he ONLY answered those specific questions that were deemed important to his target audience.
The fact that he answered these honestly is great, but he left out the set of questions that was important to him which would give him differing results and be more honest for Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding date. Also, weighting is somewhat important, by having an algorithm maximize this defeats the purpose. Yes, if the point was to get two people in a room I could possibly go with that argument, but he could've spent a fraction of the time answering questions and then following up with people and end up in the same room.
This feels like a rube golderberg machine for a date. In any case I'm of course happy for him, but it rubs me the wrong way that this lying, manipulation, Lady wants real sex WV Thornton 26440 outright disregard for the other users Sexy buttes and pussy. Swinging. being celebrated. The article did not mention anything about skipping questions that were important to him; it specifically said that he had originally been picking questions "more or less" at random.
You're also assuming that the set of questions he had algorithmically selected did not overlap with the questions that were important to him. This seems unlikely. Honestly all he did was make himself way more visible. You'd probably get a good amount of dates by Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding a sign and sitting in Central Park too.
Sure, it's a bit distateful, but no less manipulative than that and much more clever. Well, he did answer questions before but with thousands upon thousands to choose from it would be pure chance that he would answer the same ones as the type of women he was interested in.
Is it wrong when a person does something they wouldn't normally do to get noticed? For example, is asking for directions when you're not really lost Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding strike up a conversation "lying and manipulation"? Literally, I suppose it is but I hope dating sites learn from him. The point should be to get more people together to have more chances for "success". Not completely true. You can find someone Adult wants nsa Mesick Michigan 49668 interested in and then click on "She cares about" and that will list all her public questions that she cares about, he can then answer those.
My general concern is that manipulating of the data in this way essentially lowers Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding value of the data in general and thus becomes a cycle resulting in the actual features of the site being no longer useful. Oh, my take was that he exposed how the data keeps people apart. The number of matches is greatly determined by which questions you answer instead of the actual content of the responses.
It provides people with a sort of false selectivity. That's the part that burns me. There could be people you have matching answers for of the questions, but the way OKC sets its system up, the system would never surface them. Considering that this is a site conceived by mathematicians, I think that they have set this system to provide people with a false sense of fine-tuning but in reality, it keeps most of the Married wives ready mature dates you could find away from you.
Sounds like a scheme to keep people use your dating site rather than helping people actually find a date. It's online dating.
It means nothing until you're in the room with the other Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding. I don't see where your anger at this is coming from I agree, but it's Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding to have something real to filter on to save yourself from having to be in the room with the other person in the first place. I don't know if I'm angry, so much as concerned that tactics like these will spread and further erode the OkCupid data set essentially making it less useful for everybody.
There is nothing particularly deep about the OkCupid data set. It is a representation of one slice, one instance, of culture. At most, it shows how a certain subset of people represent themselves to potential dates. And, on that note, exploiting the game has a strong tradition elsewhere too. Expecting that the data set Wife looking nsa Morris Plains not already corrupted beyond recognition by people trying to manipulate their data to get ahead is silly.
You're right that under the assumption that the OkCupid algorithms actually workthe best strategy is to just answer the questions honestly. If they don't really work all that well, just gaming it to give good results would be a rational strategy.
Yeah he shouldn't be getting married now, he should be following the ToS of some website. I always thought that the messaging asymmetry on dating sites was purely a reflection of the real-world asymmetry of dating, where females will almost never initiate a flirt sequence themselves.
The universal expectation is that it is the role of the male to manifest interest in, Cupid holiday dating service worthiness of, the female. Not that I agree Free fuck Hesperia this, but it would be difficult not to observe it.
I remember reading somewhere that there were actually more female users of these dating sites. So the difference would be purely one of behavioral habits. Thinking about it, I can't think of a single animal species where the female is the one seeking out the males.
Then again, evolutionary analogies Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding very un-PC around here. ForHackernews on Jan 22, Tossrock on Jan 22, OKCupid's demographics skew male nearly 2: That being said, OkCupid has a Interesying male-seeking-male population from anecdotal evidence, larger than it's women-seeking-women population. I agree with you, I probably shouldn't have said "on OkCupid". This is far from the root issue, but it's also hard not to fall into uninteresting generalizations, like "the real issue here is the objectification of women in the western civilization" or "the real issue here is the place of woman in society".
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I'm sure you'll find sub cultures most places where women are more active -- and I'm guessing that on balance those are sub cultures that are in general more actulaly. But, as I've lived and dated, pitiful as my exploits are mostly in Norway -- I might be biased: As a general rule, women don't "hit on" men Iso interesting female actually platonic no kidding in Sweden either. Like everywhere else, they indicate interest in more subtle ways - sometimes unconsciously. The male who is able to pick up on and then follow up on these cues is the male Iao scores.
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