In this video Brad Browning, a relationship coach will inform you of some of the signs to look for that your ex is willing to get back together.
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One of the first things to note is that no matter how bad the breakup was, your ex still has feelings for you. However, you should never try and leverage those feelings by asking to get back together. This makes you seem needy and desperate, and doesn’t help create a healthy organic attraction.
Sign #1: Contact
The first sign is if they contact you after the breakup. However meaningless the contact seems, the sheer fact that they are talking to you after the breakup means they want to hear from you. This is the most obvious sign to look for.
Sign #2: Jealousy
If they get jealous upon hearing that you’ve been hanging out more with your friends or going out with someone new, this is another sign. Why else would they care if they didn’t have feelings for you? In contrast, if they are hiding their dating life from you, it’s because they don’t want you to move on or want to hide the fact that they are moving on—to keep the option of getting back together later on open.
Sign #3: Wanting To Be Friends
Another sign is if your ex wants to be friends, since chances are that at least a part of them still wants to get back together. Whatever you do, never agree to be their friend. You don’t want to be stuck in the friend-zone if you plan to get back together.
Sign #4: Breakup Sex
Breakup sex could be for closure or other purposes, but it is a sign they want you back. While it can be one step in getting back together, it can also be dangerous. The ‘Friends with Benefits’ approach isn’t recommended until you’ve build back up some attraction.
Sign #5: They’re Emotional
If they hold onto the emotion they had during the breakup, it means they aren’t over it. If they really wanted nothing to do with you, then they wouldn’t onto those feelings. There are some exceptions to this—like if you cheated on them—but they still have some emotional attachment.
About Brad Browning
Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.
Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.