In this video Brad Browning, a relationship coach defends his theory on why having no contact with your ex is the right thing to do.
Counter Argument #1: You Can’t Ignore Your Ex Into Wanting You.
The first criticism brought up is that you can’t supposedly ignore your ex into wanting you again. However, absence is a very powerful force and is even cited in the proverb that ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’. By having no contact with your ex, it will increase their attraction to you.
Even if it doesn’t increase their attraction by some chance, it does allow the emotions to settle in the wake of the breakup. Your ex can feel a myriad of different emotions depending on how the relationship ended, and time is needed for them to calm down. Once that happens, it becomes easier for them to feel positive emotions for you again.
Counter Argument #2: I Somehow Think ‘No Contact’ Will Solve All Your Problems.
The second criticism argued against is the claim that Brad’s universal answer to solving everything involves cutting off all contact. While it is an important part of the process, it is only one part of the first step, in a three-step process. This three-step system has been refined over his ten years of experience and has proven to work with the majority of his clients.
It outlines every possible scenario you will likely face. If you believe your situation is a unique one, you may also contact him at anytime for his help.
Counter Argument #3: The Recovery Process During ‘No Contact’ Is Ineffective and Useless.
The last major criticism is that the recovery done during the ‘No Contact’ phase is useless in the end. However, during this time it is critical for the client to undergo several key personal development routines to get back together with their ex and keep them. Getting back together is pointless if you breakup a few weeks later.
His tips will not only help you feel more confident in yourself, but leave you better equipped to build a stronger foundation for your relationship to be placed on.
About Brad Browning
Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.
Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.