In this video Matthew Hussey talks about where to meet a guy. Is there any one best place to meet a guy? Does it really matter?
It’s not about where you met, it’s about how you met
The places that you meet a man are not nearly as interesting as the stories that follow. Women have met men at church, through work, through friends, at a bus stop – you can really meet a man anywhere. The unifying factor, however, is that there is always a story of how a connection is made that follows.
You can meet a guy anywhere, but the most important part is that when you are in those locations you take action. You either wait or you create. It’s okay as a woman to make the first move. Create the moment that will lead to a special connection.
Don’t Wait, Create
A woman met a man on a park bench and said to him, “You’re cute. I’d really like to meet you.” Simple and direct. This man became her boyfriend. Rather than wasting time looking for the perfect place to be, look for those moments and people in all the places that you are. Don’t be afraid to take action and make the first move when you see someone that catches your interest.
There is no single best place to meet a guy. Any chance meeting will do, because it is not really about where you meet someone, but rather how you meet them. It is the story that follows the meeting that is important. So look for an opportunity everywhere you are and when you see an opportunity seize it. Take action, make a move, and create your own story to tell.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.