Women want to know where they can go to meet a quality man. In this video Matthew Hussey talks about why you can’t just list out places and sets the tone for an exercise on how to learn to meet men instead of focusing on where to meet them.
Good People are everywhere
You can meet people anywhere. Starbucks, the gym, on the street, in a bar – good people can be found anywhere you go. Maybe instead of focusing on where to meet a man, there is something else women should thinking about when they want to find a guy.
Where did you meet the last person you dated?
Think about where you met the last person you dated. Be very specific. If it was on the street, where was it on the street? If it was in a bar, think about what bar in what neighborhood? Really envision your meeting and tell the story.
It’s easier to show someone than it is to tell
You can tell people where to go or how they should go about doing something, but its’ much easier to show them how. Your own story of where you met the last guy you dated can be used as an exercise to help you learn to meet the next guy.
Women want to know where they should go to meet a really good, quality guy. The problem is that there is not one single place they should be going. Good people are everywhere. It’s easier to show people how to do something than it is to tell them. Think specifically on where the last place you met someone was. What are the details of that story? Those details will be part of what shows you how to meet the next guy.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.