In this video, Relationship Coach Matthew Hussey talks about what you should do to get your Mr. Right 6x faster.
Let go of the guy who’s not showing any potential.
By focusing on the person who’s not showing any potential, you are not focusing on the rest of the world. These guys show more potential than the guy you are seeing even though you’ve never met them. It’s because of the fact that you haven’t met them yet- they haven’t confirmed how shitty their level of investment is. You are never gonna get to the right guy for you if you get stuck with the wrong guy for months or even years. If you are wasting your time on the wrong guy, you will never gonna get fast enough to meet your dream guy in this lifetime.
Ruthlessly cut the wrong guys quicker.
As soon as you meet a guy and he’s not giving you what you want and he’s showing you that he’s low investment- you get rid of him. You can do that over and over again. The woman who makes the most progress in her love life, the woman who actually ends up meeting the right guy is not necessarily the woman who’s talented in selecting the right guy. She’s the woman who is the most ruthless in getting rid of the wrong guys so that she doesn’t waste her time with them.
Your time is the most valuable thing you’ll ever have. It is the treasure of all of our lives. Why would you waste it on somebody who is telling you through their actions that they are not the right guy for you. Don’t meet these guys. As soon as you do, the sooner you’ll meet the perfect guy for you.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.