In this video Mat Boggs reveals how to turn men on.
Men are very literal creatures – they understand spoken words and direct actions, not sly hints or subtle nudges in a certain direction. If you want your man to do more of what you want him to do and you want him to sit up and take notice of what you have to say, all you need to do is utter a very simple sentence: “Want to know what really turns me on?”
Whether it’s in regards to wanting him to behave more chivalrously or whether you’re talking about things in the bedroom, saying those words will instantly make him take notice – and it’ll turn him on.
Men Like to Provide
Men are hard-wired to provide for their partner – they like to provide in terms of material things as this proves their worth and their ability to make house, but they also like to provide for their partner emotionally, physically and sexually. And if you tell him what he needs to do to turn you on, nothing else will turn him on more! Don’t be afraid to tell him what you need – he’ll appreciate it, and it will turn him on.
Different Statements for Different Situations
If you feel a little uncomfortable telling him what would turn you on – perhaps the situation doesn’t call for it, or if it’s not a statement that you’re comfortable enough to make, there are a few different statements that you can make. Say “Could you help me with this?” or “Want to know what really makes me happy?” instead – this again gives him the ability to provide what you want and need.
About Mat Boggs
A true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing Love in the world one heart at a time, and helping others achieve their dreams. Mat has co-authored the best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.
Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.
As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.