In this video Allana Pratt and Corey Jenkins talk about how smart successful women can find the one.
Stop reading so many self help books
A lot of self help books make your neediness worse, and get you thinking that you have to be somebody else other than you are. Stop reading so many self help books and just let yourself be YOU, your most authentic self. This is when you will find yourself being at your sexiest and attracting a man towards you.
Are you in your feminine or masculine?
You have both energies residing inside of you. You may be masculine when you are in work mode, but do you approach a man when you are in this mode? If so you need to take some time out before you meet with your guy, or even talk to him on the phone as this could be why you are pushing him away. A guy wants to get you when you are feminine, so take a bubble bath, or even just say you need 45 minutes space to yourself as soon as you come home, to chill out, turn your head off from work and put yourself into YOU mode.
Are you open to him? Or do you block his love?
Following on from the above really, successful women often are entrepreneurs or run a business, and are often so much in their masculine zone, that they block a man’s energy from getting through to them. You know, you are safe to be powerful at work and let your guard down when it comes to your love life. But many women fear that if they show their softer side, a man will think they are needy. Being vulnerable is not the same as being needy so take note of that and do your best to let more of YOU shine through in your love life.
Men are not always threatened by successful women as a lot of women think. They just don’t know how to relate to them if a woman is in guy mode, as this is what they are used to with their male friends, so think of yourself as having two sides, and remember to let your softer feminine side emerge when you are with a guy.
About Allana Pratt
Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt inspires open hearted living, with delicious sass. Featured on CBS, TLC & FOX, this cum laude graduate of Columbia University is the Author of 3 books. She’s a coach to celebrities is and the Host of the sexy empowering show “Intimate Conversations LIVE”.
After working with thousands of men and women who struggle to open their hearts again in the aftermath of a harsh breakup, Allana helps them learn how to date again and find lasting love. She inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature to attract all the love and attention they can handle. She heals men’s emasculated hearts, cures their ‘nice guy’, and awakens their ‘noble badass’ so they can create hot, healthy intimate relationships. To know more about Allana, visit her website below.