In this video Allana Pratt and Corey Jenkins talk about sexual chemistry and how men and women see it, how you can get it and how you can keep it
For women it is often black and white
For a woman, she usually either fancies someone or she does not. Chemistry is there or it is not. This is of course not the same for all women but in general, a woman will know pretty much right away whether or not she can be sexually attracted to a man.
How do you cultivate the chemistry if it is there?
If chemistry is there, then things can move on to a sexual level, but you also need to cultivate things and many women fall down at this point as they sit back and wait for the man to do it. But guess what? Men LOVE IT when a woman takes the lead and becomes sexually open and what turns her on.
You really CAN tell a guy what you do and don’t like and he won’t think any less of you. He likes to see a woman take control and confidence is extremely sexy!
Tell your man what you want him to do to you via texts or emails if you do not feel you can say it face to face, and don’t be afraid to dress in a seductive fashion so that you can get his attention and show him what a lucky guy he is! Remember though that this does not have to mean boobs and bits are fully on display, give him a subtle hint of those curves and drive him crazy!
Remember the power that women have over men
Men are vulnerable too but women do not realize this. Remember that you have the power over him and if you want to seduce him and he finds you attractive it is really easy to do. This is more about confidence than anything else, so be sure to get the right mind set and the rest will follow.
Many women do just sit back and wait for a man to make the move, but if you play hard to get, this can actually leave a man thinking that you do not need or want him and he may decide to give things a miss with you because he also does not want to get hurt. So, the bottom rule is, if you like him, show him and vice versa, and don’t be afraid to ramp things up a notch.
And if the chemistry isn’t there? Sometimes it can grow, but if it’s not there, it’s not and don’t feel bad about it.
About Allana Pratt
Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt inspires open hearted living, with delicious sass. Featured on CBS, TLC & FOX, this cum laude graduate of Columbia University is the Author of 3 books. She’s a coach to celebrities is and the Host of the sexy empowering show “Intimate Conversations LIVE”.
After working with thousands of men and women who struggle to open their hearts again in the aftermath of a harsh breakup, Allana helps them learn how to date again and find lasting love. She inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature to attract all the love and attention they can handle. She heals men’s emasculated hearts, cures their ‘nice guy’, and awakens their ‘noble badass’ so they can create hot, healthy intimate relationships. To know more about Allana, visit her website below.