In this video Mat Boggs shares advice on how to build attraction with a man.
Knowing how to make a relationship last is all well and good – but to get into that relationship in the first place, you need to build a foundation. You need to build attraction. So how do you go about building attraction? Follow the advice below.
Get Rid of Negativity
Many women project a little bit of an air of negativity – and desperation – when they are actively and aggressively seeking a potential mate. If all of their friends and family members are paired off, it can feel a little bit like “I’m the only one left. What’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t he find me attractive?” and this is not a great foundation to build an attraction from, nevermind a relationship.
Masculine vs. Feminine
When women are aggressively seeking a mate, or when they are a very successful and formidable business owner, for example, they project a masculine energy, not a feminine energy. A feminine energy doesn’t mean that you have to be vulnerable and pathetic and wait for the man to come to you, it just means that you have to be feminine, quietly confident that you can attract a mate and not aggressive in your behaviour. Men like to lead, they like to be the masculine person in the relationship and they like to be the provider. Generally, if you want to build attraction, you need to project a feminine and confident energy – not an aggressive or arrogant energy.
Amplify Your Femininity
Early on in the relationship, many women feel like they need to match the male in terms of giving and receiving and providing. Because they get given something, they want to give something back. But often, men want to give you something because they want you to feel joy and they want you to feel happy. Sit back and receive and let your man know how much you appreciate him. Men like to pursue women that make them feel like a man – and that’s exactly what amplifying your femininity will do.
About Mat Boggs
A true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing Love in the world one heart at a time, and helping others achieve their dreams. Mat has co-authored the best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.
Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.
As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.