Many women are hopeful that they can meet a good guy at the gym, but don’t understand how to do it. In this video Matthew Hussey talks about how to attract a guy in the gym.
Take off your headphones
Many women go to the gym, put on their headphones and zone out on the treadmill. Then they wonder why they never meet anyone at the gym. If you want to meet a guy at the gym you need to take off your headphones and be proactive.
Find something situational to comment on. It doesn’t really matter what you say, as long as you take action to start up a conversation. You can comment on the music they play. Another technique to strike up a conversation with a guy is to ask him for his help with something. He will be flattered by your request and more than willing to help.
The trainers at the gym know everybody. By making friends with the trainers you will have an in with every other person at the gym. Another thing you can do is join a class that is not female oriented. Even if you don’t meet the right guy in the class, you will be bringing more men into your social circle and maybe they will be able to introduce you to the right guy.
You’re not going to meet a guy at the gym by putting on your headphones and focusing on your workout. You need to be social. Make friends with the trainers and join classes to widen your social circle and increase the number of people you are likely to meet. Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation with the guy on the treadmill next to you. Ask him to help you with a certain machine and flatter his ego. You can even just mention the music they play at the gym just to get a conversation flowing. The important thing is that you are proactively trying to meet people.
About Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.
Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.