Clay Andrews, leading breakup specialist for high achievers, talks about how you can tell whether you still have a chance of getting back together with your ex in this video for Digital Romance TV.
How do you determine your chances of getting back together with your ex?
There’s no cosmic math that will determine the likelihood of you getting back together with your ex. This is because getting back together is not about the external things. Even if your ex is already in a rebound relationship, that has got nothing to do with whether you can still get him back or not.
What will make your ex get back with you?
Getting back with your ex is not about external factors but about internal ones. Ultimately, what decides whether you have another shot at a relationship with your ex is your commitment and motivation to get back together with him.
Obviously, if you don’t want to try hard to get him back – you’re just going to try it out or give it a shot – then you will not likely succeed in getting back in a relationship with your ex. But if having a relationship with your ex is very important to you, and you are wiling to move mountains for it to happen, then chances are you will win him over.
Here's a story to set an example:
Clay Andrews expounded on this with an example. He cited a 60-year old man who was in a long distance relationship; a communication gap and cultural barrier separated him and his partner who later broke up with him and moved on to a rebound relationship. It seemed as if all the odds were stacked against him.
Any of those individual factors would have dissuade anyone from trying to get back together with their ex – there just seems to be no chance. But this guy did not give up. He gave it 100% of his efforts because he believed it was worth doing everything to get her back. And in the end, he did just that and they are now very happily married.
Why is your motivation key to getting him back?
This story highlighted the fact that your chances for getting your ex back depend ultimately on your mindset – how determined you are to make it happen. Along the process of getting back together, you will encounter many challenges and it will be your determination that will help you to get over those walls and obstacles.
About Clay Andrews
Clay Andrews is a dating and relationship coach who helps women find the right type of man they can create a loving and thriving relationship with. He is the creator of Ex Solution Program- a program that helps couples get back together. To know more about Clay, visit her website below.