Category Archives for "Relationship Advice"
The Client Who Couldn’t Answer the QuestionAnna had lost interest in talking to her husband about how unhappy she was. He told her to get out more and do some things for herself. “Hire a maid, just go shopping,” he told her.Depressed, she was contemplating divorce. How could he be so cold-hearted? After I asked […]Continue reading
As I sat with my friend Mandy* the other day, I listened as she passionately told me how things between she and her husband were devastatingly hopeless.I saw the hurt in her eyes and heard the pain in her voice. My heart ached for her, yet I realized that this was only her side of […]Continue reading
Welcome to the world of attachment, where the deeper you dig the more it helps to connect, or not.Layer 1There are many moving parts to who we are and to how we interact and behave in romantic and sexual relationships. And our way of interacting with those around us begins with a love story, at […]Continue reading
You can detach from the problems of addiction. Yes, you are in a relationship with an addict, but in order to love him, you do not need to stay down in the storm with him. You can rise above the dark clouds. You can serve as an example of health and happiness. Not only is […]Continue reading
Resistances Change is probably the most feared word in the English language. Somewhere deep in our psyche most of us have the concept of safety linked with the concept of keeping things the same. So, we resist change, we fight change, we hate change, we want change, but we wrestle change, we run from change, […]Continue reading