Dating coaches Nora Blake and Mike Fiore share the three ways to know if a guy is into you in this video for Digital Romance TV.
The Wrong Signs
Being obnoxious or jealous doesn’t mean he’s into you. Women think, “If I make him angry, then he must really love me”. Having a controlling behavior doesn’t mean he’s into you- the guy just has control issues. If he has the kind of obsessive behavior where you have all his attention all the time- it still doesn’t mean he’s into you.
First sign: He seeks out alone time.
He actually wants to hang out with you and not in the ‘Netflix-and-chill’ kind of way. He wants to talk to you and he cares about what you think. He wants to have time alone with you. He wants to go out and do something together where you’re actually focusing on each other.
Second sign: He slowly integrates you into his life.
It’s when you meet his friends, family and co-workers. I f he’s actively trying to integrate you into his life and not keeping you out of it like you’re a secret, then he’s really into you.
Third sign: Words.
There are certain people for whom the words are difficult. It doesn’t have to be the magic words, “I love you”. It can be “I’m really into you”, I really enjoy spending time with you”, or “I like you, we should hang out with our clothes on some time”.
About Michael Fiore
Michael Fiore is a relationship expert and has helped millions of women across the world have better relationships and Nora is his co-host.