In this video, Relationship and Dating Coach Matthew Boggs talks about the three things that men find beautiful in a woman.
First quality- Passion.
It’s not the cheesy, romantic novel kind of passion. It’s your sense of life- what you’re passionate about in life and what are the things that you love. The opposite of passion is lukewarm presence- and lukewarm is boring. Men want to see aliveness. That life energy is attractive to all human beings. The more you have it, the more attractive you become. Think of it as an attraction meter where passion is at the top and lukewarm is at the bottom. Lukewarm just kills the attraction for men. We want to know what drives you and what you’re passionate about. Show some enthusiasm and passion. Let your yes be yes and your no be no- thinking in between is never attractive.
Second quality- Playfulness.
Be playful. All of us were born with this playful instinct in our lives and it’s so easy to lose that. The stress and the heaviness of life weigh down our spirits. People who are able to unlock that playful spirit are just so darn attractive. Find ways to infuse playfulness into your dates and into your relationship. If you find ways to be playful and fun in your dating experience, then that’s gonna set you apart.
Third quality- Be positive.
Being positive is a fantastic human quality because in any given situation, we can look at the positive and also the negative. You live in a world that operates on polarity. We can choose at any moment to focus on the positive side. Negativity is one of the ugliest qualities in this planet- skepticism, cynicism and all forms of negativity. Anytime we’re being positive, we are appreciating what there is around us. When we appreciate something, it means we’re increasing its value. We’re increasing the value for the experience of everyone who’s with us. There are a couple of aspects that will really give you an edge with this. It’s fine to be positive when it’s easy- but the real value comes from a person who can find the good when it’s not so easy. When you’re positive, you’re naturally kind and generous to everyone around you. When you’re in a positive state, you become a more beautiful person to everyone.
About Mat Boggs
A true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing Love in the world one heart at a time, and helping others achieve their dreams. Mat has co-authored the best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.
Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues including: The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama.
As a highly sought after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.