Clay Andrews with relationshipinnergame.com is an expert on breakups for high achievers. In this video, he talks about the three signs to watch out for to know that your ex cannot stop thinking about you.
Sign #1: His life lately has been a reaction to yours
If your ex jumped right into a rebound relationship right after you two broke up, then it’s a reaction to you and the relationship you had. It’s even more of a sign that your ex cannot stop thinking about you if everything that happened in this rebound relationship seemed to have happened really quickly.
When you were in the relationship together, there was a certain level of commitment that was built over time. Maybe you moved in together but it took years for that to happen. If he and his rebound partner moved in together a few weeks into their relationship, it doesn't mean that what they have is stronger.
It’s more like he is displacing his thoughts and emotions, forcing to bring this new relationship to the level that he once shared with you. This happens because your ex is still wrapped up with you and your relationship such that he seems to be more in a relationship with you than he is with this new person he is with.
Sign #2: He is curious about you
There are two ways that his curiosity about you is manifested: overt or covert. Overt is when he contacts you often, trying to check in on you, asking how you are, and basically keeping tabs on your life. Covert is when he stalks you on social media or asking your friends about you.
In any case, he intends to know what you are up to, whether you are happy or sad, whether you have moved on or not, if you are already dating and with whom. If he can't seem to get enough information about your current status, then that’s an obvious sign that he can't stop thinking about you.
Sign #3: When he goes quiet very suddenly
If your ex suddenly seemed to have disappeared from your world very suddenly and without warning, then it’s another sign that he can’t stop thinking about you. It's another one of his reaction to you and against what you had.
He most likely wants to stay away from you to heal and to try and stop thinking about you. This is why he pulls away sharply, applying the “no contact” rule to you and your breakup.
About Clay Andrews
Clay Andrews is a dating and relationship coach who helps women find the right type of man they can create a loving and thriving relationship with. He is the creator of Ex Solution Program- a program that helps couples get back together. To know more about Clay, visit her website below.