August 30, 2016

3 Easy Ways To Avoid Being a Booty Call

Video Summary

Dating coaches Nora Blake and Mike Fiore share three useful tips on how to avoid being a booty call in this video for Digital Romance TV.

Number one: Don’t be too available.

Don’t be available whenever he calls for sex. When he texts you late at night and asks you to come over, don’t even bother answering. Let him think you’re asleep. You’re either asleep or you’re out doing something. You just don’t answer. Avoid falling into the trap.

He’s not gonna see you as a potential partner.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t have sex with people because that is your decision. Just know that when you establish a pattern with a guy- being that girl who is available anytime, he’s not gonna be attracted to you as a person. He’s gonna see you as somebody that he puts in the sex box and not in the relationship box.

Number two: Stop using sex as a distraction.

Stop thinking that sex will make a man fall for you. A lot of women get confused, asking things like “I slept with him, doesn’t he wanna date me now”? Those are two different things.

Sex doesn’t mean the same things to everybody.

For men, it tends to be a little less emotional in the beginning. On the other hand, women find themselves having feelings for the guy she just slept with. Men learn to love the women they like to fuck. Women learn to enjoy fucking the man they love.

Sex doesn’t change a guy’s opinion of a girl.

Sex just enhances and reinforces his opinion of you. A man is not gonna fall in love with you because of sex. If he already likes you and you guys have great sex, he’s gonna like you more. If he just kinda thinks you’re okay and you have great sex, he’s gonna think- well, the sex is great.

Number three: Date other people.

Women hate this idea because they fear it will make them seem like a slut- but it’s not what it’s about. It doesn’t mean you have to sleep with a lot of other people. Don’t just go “full stop” on dating as soon as you meet somebody. Let him know that you’re moving forward with or without him. He has to make a choice if he wants to keep up with you or not.

Don’t wait for him.

If you seem like a girl waiting around for him, that will give a guy a feeling of too much power that he doesn’t deserve. It will also create a certain level of content. Men don’t want things that are easily given to them.

About Michael Fiore

Michael Fiore is a relationship expert and has helped millions of women across the world have better relationships and Nora is his co-host.

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